This is the time of the year when I reflect upon my own childhood memories; memories filled with awe and wonder as the child-me viewed the world as a magical place. Unfortunately, this time of the year is also one of increased holiday season stress due to all the activities we feel we need to attend and accomplish. Our wish to make this time of the year "perfect" increases our expectations, many of them unreasonable, causing us to stress and lose peace of mind in our planning efforts.
As a child, I fondly recall watching the animated Christmas specials and reading all the Christmas books I could find. Those stories not only have positive endings, but most of them also depict perfection. In these stories families gather and get along with each other, the house is majestically decorated, the dining room table is set to rival the fanciest…Write comment (0 Comments)
"If one were to devise an experimental set of circumstances which would test the integrity of an individual's mood control, one would invent the year-end holiday season." Jonathan Himmelhoch (Psychiatrist, Western Psychiatric Institute, and Clinic)
The holiday season blues are real, and according to at least one study, about half of us experience the holiday season blues (the survey reached 786 adults, 18 years or older Fall of 2006). But some people can't find peace of mind so suffer the holiday season blues because they entered the holiday season already feeling sad, depressed, anxious, etc. The seemingly joyous time of the year enhances their depression and anxiety. As a result, many people feel more sad, depressed, anxious during this time than at any other time of the year.
What causes these feelings? Is it something in our genes that makes us susceptible…Write comment (0 Comments)
For those who've been through devasting life events, life often takes a sudden turn for the absolute worst. It's hard to remember a time when you were happy and optimistic when all you can think about is the horrors that you were forced to witness firsthand. Shock and confusion are the first reactions that we experience after a devastating event. There is only one question that goes through your head now, and that is why me?
When you have anxiety, it can feel like the whole world is against you. But it's really not the entire world, but one aspect of your life that's…Write comment (0 Comments)
It is essential to find and sustain hope in order to lead a happy and peaceful life. Yet most of us know what it's like to live a desperate life. A life where nothing is going towards us and nobody understands. The 'take him out', 'sleep' or my favorite, 'get through' incentive doesn't help at all. If only it was that easy to overcome the feeling of despair.
Hope is a mechanism of the human brain
Hope is a mechanism developed by the human brain to deal with contexts and situations that are not conducive to survival. Without, where can we find a sense of hope in the future or hope in someone's talent, our motivation, our will to go forward? In the worst times, it's hope that keeps me going.
That "knowledge" that says there will be better things in the future. Hope forces me to find the impossible possible because I believed it was possible and therefore claimed…Write comment (0 Comments)