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Spirituality in Trauma Counseling – Why
I have some news to share — and more importantly, something that might change how you think about healing. Spirituality belongs in trauma counseling.
This week, my article “Beyond the Artificial Separation: Integrating Spirituality into Trauma Counseling“ was published in EC Psychology and Psychiatry, a peer-reviewed scientific journal. It’s the culmination of three decades of sitting across from people carrying wounds that wouldn’t respond to standard treatment. This is the moment to engage in the reality of spirituality in trauma counseling.
People who came to me after years of therapy, medication, exposure work — all the evidence-based interventions — yet still couldn’t sleep through the night. Still couldn’t look themselves in the mirror. Still couldn’t shake the question: “Who am I now, and can I ever be whole again?”
Here’s what I learned, and what the research is finally catching up to:
Some wounds are spiritual in nature. And they require spiritually informed responses.
The Treatment Gap Nobody Talks About
Let me give you a number that should change how we think about trauma care:
40% of individuals with PTSD do not respond adequately to first-line evidence-based interventions.
Forty percent. That’s not a small margin of error. That’s millions of people being told they’re doing the work “right” but still not getting better.
Why?
Because our dominant treatment models were built on a fear-based architecture. Trauma triggers fear → fear gets stored in the body → we need to extinguish that fear through exposure and cognitive restructuring.
That works — when fear is the core wound.
But what about the veteran who tells me, “I don’t recognize who I became over there”? That’s not fear. That’s moral injury — distress from violating your own moral beliefs, from actions taken or not taken that live in your conscience long after the war ends.
What about the survivor of abuse who asks, “Where was God when this was happening?” That’s not a panic attack. That’s spiritual rupture — a severing of connection to meaning, to purpose, to whatever you once understood as sacred.
When trauma destroys your sense of belonging, your faith in yourself, your trust in a meaningful universe — interventions focused solely on fear extinction leave the deepest wounds untouched.
The Artificial Separation
For most of my career, I was trained to keep spirituality out of counseling sessions. It was too messy. Too subjective. Too risky.
We treated the neurobiological. We treated the psychological. But the spiritual? That was for clergy. For chaplains. For “after hours.”
Here’s what that separation cost us:
- Spiritual struggles independently contribute to suicide risk — above and beyond trauma exposure itself
- Moral injury — the loss of safe connection with self, society, and the Divine — substantially reduces resilience and increases suicide risk
- The DSM-5-TR includes Z codes for religious/spiritual problems, an official acknowledgment that some suffering lives in this dimension
The field is finally reckoning with what practitioners and clients have known all along:
You cannot separate the spiritual from the psychological when trauma has fragmented a person’s entire meaning system.
What “Spirituality in Trauma Counseling” Actually Means
Let me be clear about what this is not:
- It’s not imposing my beliefs on you
- It’s not preaching or spiritual direction
- It’s not bypassing painful emotions with platitudes
- It’s not replacing evidence-based treatment
It’s this: meeting you where you are, understanding your spiritual landscape, and helping you mobilize your own spiritual resources in service of healing.
If you’re Christian, that might mean prayer, scripture, or connection with your faith community. If you’re Buddhist, it might mean mindfulness practice and compassion meditation. If you identify as “spiritual but not religious,” it might mean reconnecting with nature, purpose, or a sense of something larger than yourself.
The clinician’s role isn’t priest or guru. It’s witness — someone who can hold space for your doubt, your anger, your questions without rushing to resolve them. Someone who understands that ambivalence toward the Divine is often a protective response, not a pathological symptom.
A Framework for Reclaiming Wholeness
I propose a three-phase framework for spiritually integrated trauma care. Here’s what that looks like in practice:
Phase 1: Disruption — Naming What Happened
Trauma fragments what I call your spiritual identity — your core assumptions about a benevolent world, a trustworthy self, and meaningful connection to something larger than you.
The first step is simply recognizing: Something was disrupted here. Not “broken.” Not “wrong.” Disrupted. Language matters. We’re not pathologizing your experience — we’re naming it accurately.
This phase also means distinguishing between:
- Moral injury: distress from violating your moral beliefs
- Spiritual injury: loss of connection to the sacred or transcendent
- Spiritual bypassing: using spiritual beliefs to avoid painful emotional processing (this looks like resilience but isn’t)
Phase 2: Integration — Weaving Resources Into Healing
This is where we embed spiritual assessment into standard care. Not as an add-on. As part of the intake. Part of the treatment plan.
What rituals have sustained you? What communities have held you? What practices — prayer, meditation, time in nature, creative expression — have ever given you a sense of peace or connection?
We map those resources. And we use them — alongside cognitive processing techniques, somatic work, whatever modality fits your needs.
Phase 3: Reconnection — Restoration of Belonging
Individual healing is incomplete without community restoration. This phase addresses what may be the most neglected dimension of trauma recovery: the restoration of belonging.
That might mean rebuilding relationships. It might mean finding a faith community that can hold your questions. It might mean peer support, service work, or simply learning to trust yourself again.
What You Can Do Right Now
You don’t need to wait for a therapist to begin integrating the spiritual dimension of your healing. Here are practical steps you can take today:
1. Name Your Spiritual Landscape
Take 10 minutes. Write down:
- What gives you a sense of meaning or purpose?
- What practices (if any) have ever helped you feel connected to something larger?
- What questions do you carry about faith, God, the Divine — even if they’re angry questions?
There are no wrong answers. This isn’t about belief. It’s about mapping your terrain.
2. Distinguish Fear from Moral Distress
When you’re struggling, ask yourself:
- “Am I afraid right now?” (fear-based response)
- “Am I carrying guilt, shame, or moral conflict?” (moral injury)
If it’s the second one, exposure work alone won’t touch it. You may need to address forgiveness — of yourself or others — as part of your healing.
3. Practice Dynamic Consent With Yourself
You get to decide what you’re ready to explore. Some days, spiritual conversation will feel like relief. Other days, it’ll feel like too much. Both are okay.
Give yourself permission to say, “Not today.” Healing isn’t linear.
4. Identify One Resource to Mobilize
From your landscape map (Step 1), pick one resource:
- A prayer or meditation practice
- Time in nature
- Journaling
- Connection with a faith community or spiritual friend
- Service work or volunteering
Commit to it for 15 minutes a day. Not because it’s a magic fix. Because practice builds capacity.
5. Seek Clinicians Who Can Hold This Space
If you’re in therapy, ask:
- “Are you comfortable discussing spiritual or existential questions?”
- “How do you integrate a client’s spiritual beliefs into treatment?”
If the answer is discomfort or dismissal, that’s information. You deserve a clinician who understands that spiritual struggles are clinical concerns — not distractions from “real work.”
A Call to the Field — and to You
The integration of spirituality into trauma care stands at a pivotal moment. The research is building. The DSM has acknowledged it. The 40% treatment gap demands it.
But here’s what I know after 30+ years in this work:
Reclaiming wholeness is not a metaphor. It’s a clinical objective.
When we attend to the spiritual dimension of trauma with the same rigor and ethical care we bring to the psychological and biological dimensions, clients have access to a fuller recovery.
If You’re Ready for Support
For those reading this and recognizing yourself in these words:
Many find their path grows stronger when combining personal practice with professional support. There’s no shame in needing help navigating moral injury, spiritual disruption, or the kind of trauma that fragments your entire sense of self. You don’t have to do this alone.
Lifesjourney Life Coaching offers trauma-informed coaching that integrates the full dimension of human experience — psychological, spiritual, relational. We meet you where you are. We don’t impose. We witness. We walk with you.
→ Contact us to set up an appointment: 240-587-7854
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For clinicians and colleagues:
The full peer-reviewed article is open-access and available to read here:
→ Beyond the Artificial Separation: Integrating Spirituality into Trauma Counseling
I welcome dialogue. I welcome challenge. I welcome collaboration. The field is ready for this conversation.
Christopher Shea, MA, CRAT, CAC-AD, ADS, RPS, CFRS, LCC is a life coach, certified substance use disorder counselor, adjunct professor at McDaniel College, and director of a SUD/mental health clinic. He serves on the NAADAC Public Policy Committee and the Maryland addiction professionals board. His forthcoming book, “Reclaiming Wholeness: A Spiritual Framework for Trauma and Social Reconnection,” will soon be published by Lifesjourney Life Coaching, LLC.
My Spiritual Reflection on Holy Week and Easter
A few years ago I wrote a short eBook on My Spiritual Journey to Easter. It’s a gentle companion for Holy Week, inviting us to slow down, reflect, and meet God in the quiet moments of each day. You can read it in one sitting or return to it throughout Holy Week as a guide for prayer, journaling, or conversation with others seeking deeper peace.
Click the image below and take a few minutes for your soul today by starting your own spiritual journey to Easter.
An Easter Spiritual Reflection Booklet
I’m pleased to share this booklet of my spiritual journey through my reflections from Palm Sunday to Easter. On each day I leave us challenges to guide us to deeper understandings of the feelings of the season which leads us to hope and inner peace.
There’s also an APP version to keep on your phone or computer. -Chris
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A Spiritual Journey To Easter – How To Find Peace
As I am guided along my spiritual journey of Holy Week toward Easter, I came to understand that knowledge of God is not the same as a personal relationship with God.
Through prayer and reading, I realized that for me to obtain a personal relationship with God I first needed to understand my human relationships to grasp how to approach God. This led me to the revelation that I have, in Scripture, the story of the followers of Jesus. I began to read and practice Lectio Divina in an attempt to ascertain, so as to feel, the emotions of the people who encountered Jesus.
I’m sharing this booklet with you of my spiritual journey through my reflections from Palm Sunday through Easter. On each day I leave us challenges to guide us to deeper understandings of the feelings of the season which lead us to hope and inner peace.
This booklet contains my reflections in my attempt to feel, emotionally, as did Jesus’ followers so that I, too, could have a closer personal relationship with Him.
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Thanksgiving Day Reflection
“Don’t spoil what you have by desiring what you don’t have; but remember that what you now have was once among the things only hoped for.” —Epicurus
(Norman Rockwell “Traditional Thanksgiving”)
Today, in the United States, we celebrate Thanksgiving, a holiday begun in 1789 by our first president, George Washington. In Washington’s proclamation the president stated: “this is a day of national thanksgiving and prayer.” It is a day for us to gather in remembrance and gratitude for all the blessings bestowed upon each of us, and for us, in prayer, to unite with our Creator as the one who has bestowed these blessings we now celebrate.
Thanksgiving traditionally begins that time of the year when we celebrate family, joy, peace and traditions as we head down the road to Christmas Day and later to New Year’s Eve/day. During this time I recall those special moments shared as a child; and now, as an adult, I again see that same joy, wonder and amazement through the eyes of the children in the family, and now, in their children’s eyes!

Remembering our past and viewing the present through the eyes of children hopefully returns us to a time when, in our innocence, we had a sense of awe and wonder about life. To once again ignite in us an already existing yearning to believe in things we may no longer believe as adults.
On Thanksgiving Day, many of us will be in a spirit of joy, peace and thankfulness. We recall all that we have, and cherish those with whom we have gathered. All is right in the world, until Friday arrives, the unfortunate other “holiday”, aptly termed “Black Friday”.
I am well aware of the origin of the term “Black Friday” in that it refers to the bottom-line budgetary profits for businesses selling goods. But, due to the behavior of many shoppers, “Black Friday” is aptly termed. Don’t get me wrong, I am not against consumerism nor capitalism. I too benefit from an economy based on people spending their money. My concern focuses on our perspective and intentions. Do the material goods I want take priority in my life? What are my priorities in life? Does family and faith come first or my desire to acquire material things? In Christian scripture we read about Jesus speaking on the topic of money and material goods, not that Jesus is against money and possessions, rather, Jesus challenges us to keep a proper perspective. In other words, do we put faith in our God or our possessions? What is more important in our life; our money and objects, or family, our God, and sharing with those in need?
This Thanksgiving challenge yourself to have faith in family and your God, foregoing the materialism of the season. Discover how you can spread a sense of wonderment and awe we had as a child. During this holiday season, live in a sense of wonder, joy and peace. In the moment, be “child-like”.
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Rest Stop (Easter) … is this real?
He is risen! He is not in the tomb! Can this be true? Could Jesus rise from the dead!? This morning is the beginning of a new chapter for the apostles and for those who put faith in the person of Jesus. The person whom they thought was dead is no longer in the tomb! What does this all mean?!
Can you even imagine the feelings of the apostles? Just a week ago the twelve apostles, with Jesus, triumphantly entered Jerusalem. All was right with the world! What could go wrong? Then, on Thursday, one of their own, Judas, hands Jesus over to the Romans who then kill him the next day! But just a few days ago, scared and confused, the apostles are in hiding. What do we do when we are scared? Can you understand why the apostles fled and hid? I’m not trying to justify their actions, but trying to understand them.
Sunday morning, while the apostles are in hiding, some of the women followers excitedly enter their hiding spot screaming that the body of Jesus is missing from the tomb! Wait, that’s not all; they saw an angel who told them Jesus was alive! What?!
In a matter of days the apostles go from excitement to fear, to despair, to questioning their beliefs, to confusion to cautious optimism. Wow! Later, when Jesus appears to the apostles He does not reprimand them; rather, His first words are “Peace”.
What does this mean for us? In times of our lack of faith, when we feel shame about how we treat Jesus, we need to know that He is always there to welcome us back with a word; “peace”. We no longer need to hide in fear. We need to do what the apostles did; they left their hiding place and preached the risen Jesus to the world! Nothing short of a resurrection, with proof, could have taken away their fear. The apostles, without fear, now publicly preached that Jesus was the son of God risen from the dead. And for me, the only explanation for their new-found courage; they actually saw the risen Jesus.
Not too long ago the singing group “Fun” released their song “Carry On“. The song is one of perseverance, and while not written as a religious song, I feel it very well grasps the emotions of the apostles as they came to grips of what the Resurrection meant for them. Here is the final verse and chorus of the song:
Cause we are We are shining stars We are invincible We are who we are On our darkest day When we’re miles away So we’ll come We will find our way home
If you’re lost and alone Or you’re sinking like a stone Carry on May your past be the sound Of your feet upon the ground Carry on
Easter, in it’s spiritual sense, is not meant to be celebrated on one day, but to be lived every day! The sense of hope, forgiveness and new life are to be proclaimed and lived daily! No matter what life brings us, we are now meant to “carry on” knowing and feeling the excitement of the risen Jesus!
In our lives, what can we do to feel this excitement? How do we learn to “carry on”? Focus your attention and mind on the present moment; live the moment. The apostles felt their feelings in the moment, not knowing what was to come next. Live your moments; embrace them, feel them, experience them. Do the next right thing and then live that next moment. Before you know it, you will “find your way home” and “carry on.”
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Rest Stop (Holy Saturday) … grief, hope, faith
Holy Saturday, the day after the death of Jesus, Christians await, in hope and in faith, for God to show us a sign that Jesus is truly His son. When we think of the emotions of the followers of Jesus, so sure that He was the savior, to experience His death, their heartbreak and confusion must’ve been unbearable! Were they duped? How were they so wrong to think that Jesus was God? Yet, because of everything that they experienced while with Jesus, there still exists a sense of hope in their hearts. They don’t yet understand, and they are questioning, but they haven’t yet fully rejected the belief that Jesus is the son of God.
Taken from the Christian prayer-book “The Liturgy of the Hours”, here is an ancient sermon attributed to Easter yet prayed on Holy Saturday. What does this sermon says to you in your life’s journey:
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Rest Stop (Good Friday) … love
Love; the complete and selfless giving for another; a desire to allow the other to shine and to grow. On this day, Good Friday, Christians recall Jesus, who out of love, willingly gave Himself to suffer and to die so that we may shine and grow. Jesus, the night before, agonized and prayed over this decision of suffering and dying, hoping for another way to carry out our salvation. But in the end, in response to the message Jesus hears in prayer, He says “not my will, but Your will be done.” In trust, faith and love Jesus freely suffers and dies for us.
How do we express love for others? Do we, in faith, trust enough to share our love? When we are suffering and find life difficult, in faith do we turn to Jesus who not only suffered, but who also found life’s situations difficult to endure?
Today, in faith and trust, knowing that Jesus understands what it’s like to make difficult decisions, to suffer, to feel physical and emotional pain, and to love, do we turn to Him in prayer and ask for guidance, for strength, for hope, for peace, for …..
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Rest Stop (Palm Sunday) … the start to an emotional week
Today, for Christians around the world, Palm Sunday marks the beginning of Holy Week, the days leading up to the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Spiritually, Holy Week has always been a special time for me as this week is a high point of much emotion in the life of Jesus, His early followers, and for me. In my personal spiritual journey I try to understand what it was like living in the time of Jesus. I read historical books as well as the Bible in my attempt to more deeply understand and feel the emotions of the people of the time. In my effort for a deeper and closer relationship with God, I immerse myself into the Bible stories, trying to feel what they felt; experience what they experienced. This week, Holy Week, is a recollection of not just an ancient story, but a retelling of real events which happened to real people who lived real emotions, real feelings, and real experiences.
Our challenge this week is to enter into the emotions of the apostles and the bystanders as they experienced the events leading up to the betrayal, arrest, death and later resurrection of Jesus. The emotions of this week begin today, with the joyous celebration of Jesus entering, as a beloved hero, into Jerusalem. Later this week the joyous celebration and exaltation of today becomes the confusion of Thursday as one of their own betrays and hands over Jesus to the Romans to be arrested. Quite quickly the feeling of confusion turns to fear and depression on Friday when Jesus is tortured and later killed as a common criminal. Jesus, for whom they left family and jobs, is now dead, betrayed by one of their own! Three days later comes the bewilderment and hope as news spreads of Jesus’ resurrection Sunday morning!
As this week unfolds I will share with you my reflections and feelings of the events of Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and Easter Sunday. I invite you to join with me in my spiritual journey this week. Share with us your reflections and emotions as you journey through this holy week.
My challenge for today:
- What can I do to more deeply understand the emotions and reactions of the apostles as they triumphantly enter Jerusalem?
- What can this week teach me about my faith life?
- How do I hope to have my life changed by this exercise of delving into the emotions of the stories of this week?
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Rest Stop (Ash Wednesday) … letting go
Today, Christians around the world will receive ashes on their forehead as a reminder that we came from dust and will once again return to dust. Therefore, “Ash Wednesday” is a time to pause, reflect on our lives, and make plans to remove from our lives those aspects of ourselves which do not lead us closer to our God.
The practice of pruning our lives of those areas which are not healthy or which take us away from our inner-peace, produces a sense of humility as we realize that we are not perfect, but that we have the ability to learn from our imperfections. Letting go allows us to be true to ourselves, and open to the guidance of others.
There are people who exemplify humility, and for me, the ideal example comes from Saint Francis of Assisi. He was a wealthy son of a powerful merchant father, who, after gaining personal insight, gave up everything to live in poverty and to serve the poor in the spirit of Jesus. It wasn’t simply the giving up of everything that made Francis humble; it was his attitude and way of living. In the book “The Way of St. Francis: the Challenge of Franciscan Spirituality for Everyone“, author Murray Bodo, OFM writes:
In other words, living our lives focused on our values, and in a true sense of a love of neighbor, will keep us grounded (humble) and focused on our priorities (simplicity). Today’s closing prayer from the Liturgy of the Hours morning prayer nicely sums up what I am saying: “Change our selfishness into self-giving. Help us to embrace the world you have given us, that we may transform the darkness of its pain into life and joy.”
What can we do to help us attain humility and simplicity?
- Spend 10 minutes each day in quiet, focusing your thoughts on simple phrases and your breathing.
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Spend time watching and reflecting on the nature around you. Do you see the ant, flower, bird, leaf, dog, cat, etc. What are they doing?
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Make a list of your life’s priorities. Those items at the top of your list need your full attention. The rest, well, decide what is necessary and what is merely clutter in your life.
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Help others. Love your neighbor.
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